Hi,
As you probably
have figured out by now by reading my weekly
letters to you that my life is an open book.
My family knows that most of the Cragg
family secrets are not really secrets because
I write about them here or share them in
talks at MYF or other times. They don't
particularly like for me to tell some of the
stories about the fam, but I guess they have
gotten used to it. Kelly still does not like
for me to tell the story about the time she
cut her hand on a tuna fish can and I
suggested that we take her to our vet to
check it out. Beverly took her and no
stitches were needed: one of my better ideas,
I think.
Anyway, I
decided since Covenant Sunday is this Sunday
that I would share a few more things about
our family. The theme this year is Love
Extravagantly. For as long as I can
remember, Beverly and I have cheerfully given
to this church. We have been married for
almost thirty years and over all these years
through thick and thin, (This is not
necessarily a weight joke about me since thin
really does not apply. Maybe through thick
and thicker?) we have always had a financial
pledge to the church. I am proud to tell you
that our pledge has increased every year;
some years more than others. It was one of
the first checks that we would write each
month. Now that I work here, I have it taken
out of my check each month even before I get
it. It is easy and automatic.
Now I tell you
this to let you know how very important it is
for Beverly and me to support our church. We
really are cheerful givers. Now I am not
going to tell you how much we give to the
church. Giving is a covenant between us and
God. I will tell you that if the church was
not a high priority for our family, we would
have money for other things. My family might
drive newer cars. We might have a lake house
or place at the beach. We might not have a
couple of the college loans that we have for
Parker and Kelly. I might be wearing
designer jeans and suits. Or those European
shirts unbuttoned down to my navel. (Well, on
second thought, those shirts really don't fit
me. By not fitting, I mean I can't button
the three bottom buttons. I need the
American wide body fit I guess.)
You get the
picture. If we did not give financially to
the church, we would have more money for
other things. But you see, we have a lot of
things. By giving to the church, we are
"investing" in the future and also in the
present. I don't have to tell you about how
Memorial Drive Church makes a difference in
the lives of so many. This church blesses us
in so many ways. Being a part of something
greater is awesome. Beverly and I know that
our gifts help. Our part helps complete the
whole.
Now I know that
I am just a youth director so let me tell you
why I am writing to you about money. I know
that almost everyone hates to talk about
money and for the church to talk about money.
I am not in that group. I know that it
takes all of us to be the church. We all are
called to support the church with our all.
That includes our financial gifts. It
matters that you give to the church. You get
to decide the amount. All I will say about
that is that it ought to "hurt" a bit. By
that, I mean that it should be somewhat
sacrificial. I say somewhat, because I do
struggle with the great abundance in which I
live compared to most people in the world. We
really don't sacrifice in the strict sense of
the word. It should be an amount though that
you seriously think about and pray about.
I can tell you
without a doubt that I can't
even imagine what our lives would be like
without this church. I joined Memorial Drive
Church when I was in high school. Beverly
and I were married here almost thirty years
ago. Both Parker and Kelly were baptized and
confirmed here. I have been on staff here
for over twenty years. This place is home to
our family. In fact, Beverly and I have
decided that we will be here forever. We
will both be interred in the church
columbarium one day. One day a long long time
from now hopefully.
Thanks for
letting me share with you about the blessings
this church has bestowed upon the Cragg
family. Of course, you and your little
darlings are a big part of those blessings.
Thanks for being a part of our lives.
See
you Sunday,
Steve